New Quaker Checklist #20
FGC recommends the following tip for newcomers to the Quaker faith: Attend a potluck or “friendly eights” group event at your local meeting.
The after-meeting potluck lunch is a tradition in many Quaker meetings, often celebrated once a month on a set schedule. Sometimes lightheartedly called the “meeting for eating,” the potluck lunch offers Friends and newcomers a chance to sit, snack, and connect. If your local meeting hosts a potluck, plan to grab a plate and share a meal with Friends. If you’re able to contribute a dish or a drink or a dessert to the meal, even better (but no pressure — there’s enough food for everyone!).
Friendly Eights offer another opportunity to build community over a shared meal. A meeting community will divide into small groups of eight who gather for a meal and conversation on a regular basis. Joining a small group and spending time with Friends outside of meeting for worship can connect you with spiritual companions and deepen your faith journey. Plus, they’re fun!