Becoming Patterns and Examples for Children
Children explore the world in search of examples for how to be. They also strive to be examples for others.
Using Picture Books for Spiritual Deepening with Children (and Adults!)
Children love books. Reading a book to children builds a sense of connection and shared experience from which lessons naturally arise. When preparing an inviting space for a read aloud, make sure children are all able to see the book. Position yourself, your chair, and the book so everyone feels included. Think about your voice and the pace of your reading. While you don’t need to “do voices” to make the story interesting, your voice should be loud and clear, and your pace should be a bit slower than usual, everyday talking. You can ask children to hold thier noticings and questions for the end. And/or you may decide to pause at certain points to invite conversation about what’s happening in the story.
Books may be presented in one lesson or presented in multiple lessons. Young children, especially, may need to have a story presented over several sessions. Teachers could repeat reading the book and asking wondering questions at each presentation and then move through the various activities over the course of more than one week. Young children love repetition and revisiting books and materials. It gives them a sense of what the book or activity is about and helps them feel some control over the concepts they are learning.
When possible, links to video read-alouds have been included for those who don’t have a copy of the book handy. Check your local library for suggested titles. Many of the books are available through QuakerBooks at FGC.
Harvesting Hope: The Story of Cesar Chavez
Read the book or show the YouTube Read Aloud, Harvesting Hope: The Story of Cesar Chavez, by Kathleen Krull.
A is for Activist
Read the book or show the YouTube Read Aloud, A is for Activist, by Innosanto Nagara.
Wangari’s Trees of Peace
Read the book or show the YouTube Read aloud, Wangari’s Trees of Peace, by Jeannette Winter.
Malala: A Brave Girl From Pakistan
Read the book or share the YouTube read aloud, Malala: A Brave Girl From Pakistan, by Jeannette Winter.
The Boy Who Harnessed the Wind
Read the book or share the YouTube read aloud, The Boy Who Harnessed the Wind, by William Kamkwamba.
Wondering with Children
The practice of wondering about a story with children makes space for them to explore the ideas and images, words and characters in a story from the particular perspective of that moment in their lives. When we ask children to wonder about a story, we’re not asking them for a factual answer to a question. To wonder can also mean to speculate, to doubt, to question, to be unsure. It can also mean to be in awe or to marvel. We invite children to do any of these things when we wonder together about the story we’ve just experienced.
Some Practical Tips
- When you finish a book and begin to ask the wondering questions, make sure your posture, face, and voice are open and welcoming.
- Children who have not been asked to “wonder” before may be puzzled by this language. You may need to invite them into this experience very explicitly: When we wonder, we’re sharing what we think, feel, or know about the story. There isn’t one right or wrong answer. Let’s listen in our hearts.
- Starting with a question like, I wonder what part of the story you liked best? is open and inviting. Children usually know what they liked in a story.
- Listen to and affirm responses. Try to avoid comments like, that’s right.Instead, reflect back what you heard, you liked the colors.
- Use the book! Turn to the pictures or parts of the story children refer to.
- Remember to be comfortable during periods of silence when children are thinking.
I wonder what part of the story you liked best?
I wonder what part of the story is most important?
I wonder where you see yourself in the story, or what part feels like it’s about you?
I wonder if there is nay part of the story we could take out, and still have all the story we need?
You can also explore these questions with these books about Becoming Patterns and Examples:
- Tell about someone in your life that’s an example for you?
- What example do you see in this story?
- How are you an example for other people?
- Faith & Play™ stories are the Quaker extension of Godly Play®, a religious education curriculum written primarily for children ages 3-13. Friends have found that they are also “wonder-full” story experiences for adults and multigenerational groups. The stories and wondering together about them offer opportunities to build spiritual community and deepen our experience of Quaker faith, practice and witness. Storytellers use three-dimensional materials, so that both language and images are offered, drawing in the listener in profound ways.
Friends interested in using Faith & Play™️ or Godly Play®️ stories as religious education resources should be aware that there is a particular method of storytelling and supporting children’s spiritual lives that these stories employ. More information about Faith & Play and Godly Play for Friends, including training opportunities, can be found on the website: www.faithandplaystories.org. Faith & Play stories use a particular method of storytelling for supporting children’s spiritual lives, and work best when storytellers have participated in “Playing in the Light” training offered by Faith & Play Stories, Inc. with Godly Play/Faith & Play trainers.Faith & Play was created by Friends trained to use Godly Play®, a storytelling curriculum for exploring Bible stories, authored by Jerome Berryman.
- Sparkling Still: A Quaker Curriculum for First Day School or Home Use for Children Ages 3-8
As Quakers, we recognize children as fully spiritual beings. For children ages 3-8, theis is the perfect moment to begin to intentionally explore through a Quaker lens their sense of self, relationships to family, the broader community, and the natural world. Sparkling Still is a curriculum designed for use in First Day School and/or at home.
Sparkling Still provides:
- Philosophical grounding in the Quaker concept of continuing revelation is discussed and explored through wondering questions
- Practical considerations including a master lesson plan template and concrete suggestions about building classroom community as well as logistical concerns.
- Seven ready-to-use lesson plans and nearly 30 pages of additional book suggestions and where to go for more ideas
- An appendix with Teacher Resources including websites, books and articles to enrich and expand the leader’s own spiritual growth and understanding of the faith development of children.
THE SPARKLING STILL WORKING GROUP OF FRIENDS GENERAL CONFERENCE.
- Read more about Spiritual Deepening for Children.
- Games for Building Community and Having Fun
Bird, Beast or Fish?
Teacher whispers the name of a bird, beast, or fish (some examples: peacock, horse, shark, seahorse, dog, bear) to a first child up.
The child mimes the bird, beast or fish. Other children guess out loud.
The first child with the correct guess gets to be the next child up.
Continue until all children get a chance to mime the bird, beast, or fish.
Tug of Peace
Materials: a circular rope
Have children sit around the circular rope facing center with their knees up.
Lay the rope on the laps of those seated. Each person holds onto the rope with both hands and leans back.
Using tension in the rope, each person should be able to lift themselves.
Discuss the experience.