
In 1986, Philadelphia Yearly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends published Outreach Ideabook: Suggestions for attracting and nurturing newcomers and enriching Quaker meetings. A looseleaf book collected in a goldenrod binder, this resource was groundbreaking at the time, and surely contributed to improved retention in several meetings.
This page collects some of the suggestions that FGC Outreach staff members consider to be timeless–activities and practices that worked over 40 years ago which could also work today if implemented with fidelity.
Visibility and Accessibility
- Establish First Day School
- Pay for trustworthy childcare
- Host a Halloween, Fall Harvest, or other seasonal party for youth and their friends.
- Establish a Peace Scholarship or Peace Essay Contest for local high school students
- Host workshops on conscientious objection for students and their families.
- Host a joint Thanksgiving fellowship with a different faith community
- Host a Christmas Eve vigil for peace near your meeting location
- Establish a “Speakers Bureau” with Friends who have a gift for public speaking.
- Encourage Friends to invite their friends to worship for major milestones like wedding anniversaries
- Join local interfaith associations
- Participate in community activities and fairs, such as block parties, garden walks, or other activities traditional to the meeting’s neighborhood.
- Develop a historical tour for youth, especially as field trips for youth attending local Quaker schools.
- Rent out a theater to screen a film of interest to the meeting and the community.
- Midweek meeting for worship on a local college campus.
- Alternating picnics/barbecues/cookouts with members of a community from another side of town.
Warm Welcome
- Sincere invitations to worship, to friends, neighbors, and colleagues
- Leaving introductory pamphlets and brochures in entryways or on the benches
- Construct a reusable, portable display for community events.
- Social hour after the meeting.
- Potluck suppers.
- Discussion groups, at the meetinghouse and in homes.
- Utilize visits from public ministers as a central reason to invite folks to visit.
- Greeters
- Annual panel discussions for visitors
- Friends who answer questions after meeting
- Bulletin board with member photos and names
- Give use of the meeting house to nonprofit organizations in alignment with Quaker testimonies
- Nametags
- Quaker in the corner
- Flear market
- Bring a Friend Sunday
Nurturing Returners
Nurturing the Meeting
Using Resources
Centering Outreach
Ideas that don’t withstand the test of time
- Cookbooks. Although independent publishing is a lot easier now than in 2026, it’s a lot of work up front to manage the project and to turn the whole meeting into promoters and salespeople.
- Private screenings of films. Although it’s easy to screen a film that you own or have access to, you technically need to purchase a license to show a film outside of the home. The cost of screening licenses is such that you might as well rent out a movie theater instead. Most theaters have an easy way to do this.
- Listing in the Yellow Pages. What’s that?
- Church page in local newspapers. Print journalism has changed a lot in the last forty years. Major newspapers are less likely to maintain community sections like they once did. Instead, make sure that your meeting’s QuakerFinder page is up-to-date.
- Guestbooks. Although we’re not ready to fully retire the tradition, the act of physically signing one’s name in a book feels like a commitment to some people. Instead, perhaps offer a brochure or a card with contact information for the clerks.