Welcome the children to the circle. Be sure to introduce everyone, if visitors are present.
Invite children and adults to go around the circle sharing one or two pluses and minuses from their day or week. It helps to ask for 2 items only, either 2 of one or one of each. Children are comfortable with a limit, unless another person’s comment sparks another one for an individual child.
Sing a centering song, such as “God’s Love is a Light,” hymn #218, Worship in Song, A Friends Hymnal, and/or one of the songs suggested in Materials Tab. In addition, or instead of, use breathing or other exercise to center the group. The simplest way is to breathe deeply three times. Adding lifting arms up and down with the breath or holding tummy during deep breaths can help.
Show the cover of the book, read the title and author’s name. Ask the children a question that invites them to wonder about the story.
“I wonder why the child is hiding in the leaves. I wonder if the blue butterfly is part of the story. Let’s see what happens.”
Read the story, holding the book so all can see. Depending on reader’s comfort level with the children, allow comments during the story, especially from younger children.
After reading the story, invite the children to wonder about the story with you.
I wonder what you liked in the story today.
I wonder what part of the story is really important for you?
I wonder where you are in the story or what part of the story is about you.
I wonder which way of being present is your favorite or one you really like?
After the children have finished wondering and are ready to go to the next activity, introduce the option for Individual Reflective Art Response or a Teacher-directed Activity.
Individual Reflective Art Response
Children choose from a collection of attractive art supplies and work individually for about 15 minutes to create something of importance to the child. It may or may not be a direct reflection on the story they just heard and wondered about. See page 7, Sparkling Still, for more information and references.
Options for Teacher-directed Activity
If you haven’t used pluses and minuses before, introduce them as a way of practicing being present. Direct the children to practice listening to their friends as their friends share their joys and sorrows. Discuss what it feels like to be listened to carefully.
Make a gratitude chain or notes. Children can express their gratitude towards anyone or their gratitude in general. Some children might like to draw pictures showing someone or something they are grateful for.
Practice listening by lying on the floor or sitting quietly in their chairs and focusing on their breathing. Listen to each breath going in and out, in and out. How does it feel?
Practice closing eyes and being still enough to hear their inner voice. Use a jar with water and glitter. Shake the jar to swirl the glitter around. Set it down and use the settling of the glitter as a metaphor for the children as they settle. Sit in the silence for a few minutes, and then ask the children what worked or didn’t work as they practiced listening for their inner voice.
Provide a 5-minute warning before the children need to clean up. After clean up, gather the children in a circle and ask them to name one thing for which they are grateful. Sing songs while waiting for their parents to pick them up, or before joining the adults after the rise of Meeting for Worship.
If the children join their loved ones while Meeting for Worship is still in progress, before you lead them back to the meeting room, invite them to remember how they still themselves and some things about the morning that they may want to think about during the final moments of Meeting for Worship.
Hand out the Take Home Notes, if using, as parents pick up the children in the First Day School room, or after the rise of Meeting for Worship, if joining loved ones in worship.